Afraid of Losing Someone’s Affection

May 9, 2010 by  

What are you doing or not doing because you are afraid of losing someone’s affection?

This fear can activate some interesting programming. We often interpret how we feel about ourselves through other people’s thoughts and feelings about us. This is how most of us have been taught to be in relationship, but it prevents you from living with all of your Soul’s power.

We are taught to hold on to love of another everywhere in our culture. Paul Simon has a great line in Graceland: “losing love is like a window in your heart. Everybody sees you’re blown apart. Everybody sees the wind blow…” I have experienced that pain and I know you have too. So what’s the answer? How can we love, be loved, and be in our power?

I don’t know about you, but I want to feel the power of love. And I mean really feel it. Nurture it. Allow it to grow and then overflow and seep into everything I am and everything I do.

This is an daily exercise that I have been doing to feel my Soul’s love and power:

Take a deep breath and allow your awareness to settle into your tailbone. This allows you to be more grounded and gives your mind something to focus on so the Soul can steer the ship.

Now, create a conscious connection with your Axiom of Quest (your mission Language). If your Axiom of Quest hasn’t been identified yet, just ask Divine Intelligence to create this connection for you.

Why the Axiom of Quest? When you are aligned with your mission it is easy for you to gather the resources that will help you manifest that mission.

Ask your Axiom of Quest and Divine Intelligence to fill your body with the feeling of being without judgment, with the feeling of being in the power of Love, and with the safety to be yourself in your relationships.

How did that feel? What would you do, create and say from this new place of power?

Often we make living in your Soul harder than it has to be. When you create a conscious connection with your Soul and understand your Soul Languages, you have a key that can unlock so many doors.

Jennifer Urezzio is an intuitive healer and the founder of Know Soul’s Language. Soul Language is a way to consciously connect with your Soul that was received through Divine Guidance. Understanding your Soul Languages allows you to access your own Soul’s guidance to accept your value, be more confident, have more impact and grow into a stronger leader.

If this topic resonates with you, feel free to participate in my upcoming complimentary class — Gathering Your Soulful Power.  Click here to sign up.

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Comments

2 Responses to “Afraid of Losing Someone’s Affection”

  1. Sri Gawn Tu Fahr on May 21st, 2010 12:18 am

    My Facebook friends have described me as Rumi on a rocket, Eckhart Tolle out of control, Einstein looped on wine, Dr. Seuss tanked on juice, Ghandi with the Wind, Chris Rock running amok and Deepak out of Whack.

    http://www.facebook.com/pages/Sri-Gawn-Tu-Fahr/108338045862788?ref=ts

    http://srigawntufahr.wordpress.com/

  2. Jennifer Urezzio on May 21st, 2010 5:21 pm

    Thank you for sharing who you are.

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