Experiencing & Overcoming Feelings of Failure and Self-Worth

July 8, 2010 by  

One of the informational tools that I’ve picked up along my journey has been hand-analysis. I found it so helpful that I took Baeth Davis’ course and I’m including a hand-analysis in an upcoming in-person course, Soul Success — Loving and Accepting You, on July 31st.  The most important information that I felt hand-analysis provided me with wasn’t my life purpose, but my Skillbuilder (hand-analysis calls it your life lesson). Your Skillbuilder (or life lesson) is your biggest pattern or belief challenge. It’s hard wired into your system and each time you move from struggling with your life lesson to being your life purpose it builds skills, hence the name change on my part.

I find that knowing and understanding when you are experiencing your Skillbuilder helps you to move from struggle to flow.  I also find that most people are in Skillbuilder when they are in the struggle side of their Soul Languages.

My Skillbuilder is failure and self-worth.  When I have gotten on the train to Skillbuilder town, it is extremely hard for me to feel like the spiritual leader that I truly am.

What are some of the clues that reveal you might be experiencing your own Skillbuilder? Sometimes the clues are big ones such as depression, anger, feeling stuck or feeling unsupported.  Sometimes the clues are sneaky like word choices, moving too fast, not checking in with yourself, people pleasing and/or servitude.  Of course, these are just a few experiences.

So how can you overcome your Skillbuilder experience to be who you truly are?  I enlist the help of my Soul via my Soul Languages and Divine Intelligence.

The first thing I do is PAUSE!  And, ask Divine Intelligence to fill my body with the feeling of being loved, supported and at peace.

This allows me to get back onto the train and start to move out of Skillbuilder town. Remember, judging yourself because you are in struggle or Skillbuilder town will keep you locked down in the struggle. If you have a tendency to beat yourself up, add the words without judgment to the statement above. So you will ask Divine Intelligence to fill your body with the feeling of being loved, supported, without judgment and at peace.

What Does The Universe Feel About You?
Then I ask Divine Intelligence to show me vividly and clearly how the Universe feels about me. The Universe will give me different images or feelings.  Each time I have asked this question, whatever the image, thought or feeling it has always been beautiful and filled with love.

Making my way back to being ME is the first step. The second step is utilizing this experience to expand and be more powerful. So I ground and center myself and connect with one of my Soul Languages for additional information and guidance. My suggestion for this scenario is to create a conscious connection with your Axiom of Quest (your mission Language) using Divine Intelligence. Why the Axiom of Quest (mission) Language?  When your mind, body and Soul are in alignment with your mission, it is easier to gather resources to be that mission. You will know when you need to have a heart-to-heart with your Axiom of Quest because you’ll feel like you don’t know what you are supposed to be doing or you don’t feel like you are living your mission or purpose.

If you don’t know (yet) your Axiom of Quest, ask Divine Intelligence to connect you with this part of your Soul. Divine Intelligence will do this for you. When you know your Soul Languages, it allows you to create really good questions, among other things, to receive clarity about your life.

Here’s the question to ask your Axiom of Quest (mission) Language:

How can I enlist the help of my Axiom of Quest to experience struggle or Skillbuilder less?

My Axiom of Quest (mission) Language is Equalizer. My mission is to help myself and others create a balanced formula to achieve what they desire.  So the answer to this question for me was to participate more fully in my daily balancing mediation. My Languages are really action-oriented so I tend to rush through things.

What information did you receive? Now, it is up to you to follow through.

If this topic interests you, I suggest you discover my upcoming in-person class, Soul Success – Loving and Accepting You or my upcoming July teleclass, How To Be The Great Receiver.

Jennifer Urezzio is an intuitive healer and the founder of Know Soul’s Language. Soul Language is a way to consciously connect with your Soul that was received through Divine Guidance. Understanding your Soul Languages allows you to access your own Soul’s guidance to accept your value, be more confident, have more impact and grow into a stronger leader.

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