Stop Being Loaded Down With The “Suppose To’s”

Sometimes our Souls have a certain desire or inspiration and our human beliefs can misinterpret those desires. This often shows up in a person’s life as feelings of “suppose to’s.”

We are not on the path. We are our path. This pattern of “suppose to’s” can disrupt you feeling and acting as if you are your path. This feeling can cause confusion, distrust in yourself and actions that do not show yourself love!

So what can you do if you are in the “suppose to’s?”  The first step is understanding your big “why!”  Your big “why” is what propels you every minute of every day.  It is what you feel most passionate about.

Focus on your tailbone and take a deep breath.  Set the intention to connect with your higher-self and answer the following questions (without thinking about them, just write).

1.      Why are you here?

2.      What is your greatest desire?

3.      What do you secretly dream about?

Often we set up patterns as an illusion for keeping us safe.  If you are focusing your time on “what you are supposed to be in doing,” it is a way of keeping you safe (an illusion) from what you could be doing.

Let’s say that you have a desire inside of you to be on stage but growing up it was safer to go unnoticed. This pattern is now competing with your Soul’s desire to be out in front and on the stage.

After you are done journaling, you get to answer one additional question:

How are you using “suppose to’s” to keep you safe?

Now that you are aware of what’s happening, you can take the next step in clearing and releasing this pattern so you can live the life you desire.  If this topic interests you, I’m opening up this month’s Success Support Group Class on this very topic.  You can sign up for that complimentary class by clicking here.

If you are interested in exploring your own Languages or offering that discovery to someone else, please secure a complimentary 15-minute private session. Also, if you are interested in investigating which Soul Languages would be beneficial for you to attract, feel free to reach out to me (at to request a private session.

Jennifer Urezzio is an intuitive healer and the founder of Know Soul’s Language. Soul Language is a way to consciously connect with your Soul that was received through Divine Guidance. Understanding your Soul Languages allows you to access your own Soul’s guidance to accept your value, be more confident, have more impact and grow into a stronger leader.

To receive your 15 minute complimentary Soul Language session click here.

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